First, you are to address me as Mistress always. Understand my time is valuable and that every moment I spend with you should be valued. I’m a high protocol Mistress & I get dozens of emails and messages a day from subs. I will only accept those who leave a good FIRST IMPRESSION and follow protocol. I may not get back to you right away, but be patient I will reply to your email. DO NOT spam me with emails, texts or phone calls. You will get blocked.
During sessions I expect full compliance, submission and control. I do not like subs to talk back, not even playfully. Brats are my least favorite subs! I expect to be spoiled, praised and thanked during our time together. I expect full honesty and there must be trust between me and my sub - without it, the relationship will not last. Finally, under no circumstances should you ever be intoxicated or severely under the influence when you are serving me. What you do in your free time is, for the most part, your business. Especially if I am not your official Mistress nor do not own you. But if we are on a video session or an in person session I expect you to be fully alert and only high on the experience I’m giving you.
Before your time with me is officially reserved I require a few things and have
rules that MUST be abided by. ITS ADVISED THAT YOU READ THIS IN FULL!!!
1. Fill out the questionnaire under the “contact” page. You will not hear back from me unless that form is submitted.
2. Provide your deposit. It’s that simple. Nothing will be confirmed until your session deposit comes though.
3. I prefer not to session with anyone under the age of 25. Young subs tend to try to “top from the bottom” and I am absolutely not interest in that.
4. If at any time I begin to feel uncomfortable or displeased I reserve the right to shut the session down immediately. You will not be refunded and you likely will be “black balled” in the BDSM community.
5. If you no call, no show your deposit will be forfeited and you will still be responsible for your full tribute amount. If you fail to provide the remainder of your full tribute. You will loose the opportunity to ever see me in the future and you will likely be “black balled” in the BDSM community
6. Listen, I get it. Things come up, people get sick and plans change! So in the event that you need to cancel or postpone your appointment. I require a minimum of 4 hours notice. Email, text me or call me. If you call me with at least 4 hour notice; you will have 2 weeks to rebook before you loose that deposit completely.
7. In the unlikely event that I NEED to cancel or postpone our session then again, your deposit will be valid for the following 2 weeks.
8. Directions to my dungeon will be given once your deposit is made and your session is confirmed. DO NOT ask for that information prior.
9. Do not make me ask for my tribute. I would prefer your remaining tribute to be brought in cash and placed on the table prior to beginning our session.
10. DO NOT ASK ME TO EXPOSE MYSELF IN ANY WAY. This will get you kicked out and blacklisted. If you want to see titties - Google them.
11. There will be a safe word that I will provide you at the beginning of our session.
12. DO NOT SHOW UP TO THE SPACE INTOXICATED, UNCLEAN OR IN ANY CLOTHING THAT WILL RAISE ALARMS. You may change in to your preferred garments (or nothing at all) once our session has officially begun.
13. Our time will begin with a brief chat about our you and our session. This will give me some further insight about you and your expectations pertaining to our time together. From there we will begin our session and you will assume “first position” which is on your knees with your head down as you await further instructions.
14. Marks: I get it - a lot of clients prefer not to have marks. I do my best to accommodate that request, however if there is impact play, you must understand that there may be some marks. It all depends on your skin and how it reacts to the paddles or lashes. As much as I try to keep it “mark free” for my clients who request that. I can not guarantee that you will leave my space with absolutely no marks from a paddle, pinwheel or rope bondage. If marks are a hard limit - you need to tell me that prior to booking your session with me.
15. Finally discretion is paramount. I want all of my subs to feel safe and know that I will never discuss our sessions with anyone else, unless it has been specifically talked about and you agree to allow me to share some details (with discretion.) In return, I expect the same from my subs. If I find out you have disclosed my location, discussed our session or disclosed anything personal about me that was shared in confidence you will be black listed.